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There’s a myth that says “that to get what you want ,you have to kick ass”. But that”s not true. There are people who defy that law- who seem to have the perfect job,incredible relationship, and always get their way and also you just can’t help liking them. The truth is that they asked for what they wanted nicely… Get your own way every time and still be a “nice person”..Want to get that refund?,Demand a promotion?,or make your partner wash up without turning into “The Bitch From Hell”.? Here’s how Its all about communication, .you have to work at it and one of the easiest ways to that is to- Tap into the time lag- the Quarter of a second between wanting to respond and actually responding. It begins before you’ve even opened your mouth. Know your outcome and visualize getting what you..Do not allow past encounters to influence you, especially if you have not gotten your way in the past, Its vital that you don’t see yourself  through those eyes from now on,. Remember- w